I had major spinal surgery yesterday, 6/29/2023. It went well. I’m very uncomfortable and I’m considerable pain, but hopefully I’ll start to feel better soon.
If you guys would like to help out with medical bills in anyways, please sub to my free OF and feel free to send me tips. 🥺♥️
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I am not one that likes asking for money, but please feel free to reblog this post to spread the word as I’m drowning in medical debt and unable to work because of my condition. 🥺
lots of times if I tell my boyfriend that I am proud of him for dealing with a situation, or that I’m sorry he’s having to deal with a situation, he will say “no it’s my own fault.” meaning that he feels like he doesn’t deserve praise or comfort for dealing with a situation that is his fault. (for example a financial problem caused or exacerbated by him having been too anxious or absentminded to deal with the situation sooner.) and I tell him this and I will tell y'all this, that I don’t believe that. I think you are even braver and stronger for taking steps to deal with a mess that is of or partly of your own creation, because you have to cope with guilt and shame on top of the thing itself, and because you’re fighting against the same ingrained dysfunction in yourself that caused the mess. that’s like the bravest and most constructive thing you can do and you should be proud and I am proud of you.
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